Fear of God and teach Morality. If we have the fear of God and we understand what morality means, then we understand the real answer to the growing problems corresponding to violence against women and children. Divorce is clearly NOT a TRUE solution to the growing domestic problems. I see it just like an illegal drug which has a little benefit of lessen the pain of the patient. It is also an addictive medicine in most cases that can kill and ruin the life and relationships of the couple. Above all, the main key for a successful relationship is Christ; Christ should be the ruler of our hearts and our home.